LOVE…

We all are in search of that right person, with whom we can connect, with whom we can share every good or bad thought without any sort of fear and insecurity. The one who values emotions, the one who values music, the one who values he feelings. The one who sees beauty in every small thing around. The one who is not superficial, but is deep, who values life. Some don’t waste even a second to say as soon someone opens up to talk. They simply mean shut-up. Someone who is without any mask and no pretensions. And we too are the same, with no pretense, we can do or speak anything we like to, no fear, no barrier. Sometimes we all can be selfish, impatient, insecure, well make mistakes, are out of control at times. So what, we are so much human. If we are not so, then we are not at all human and if we seek someone without all these, we are seeking someone inhuman. Simple. Be human. Love human.

Every day comes with a new promise. The season is changing and this changing time itself has its own significance. Mostly people think about the season which we were in or what kind of weather we will have in the near future and miss the current day which is as beautiful like any other day. Each day has a tale to tell of its own kind. It can never be replicated.  It is said happiness is in mind, but is it?.... is it not connected to our hearts. It is like the music. Music, most of us love. We love it when we are happy and we love it when we are sad. Though the music may differ with our moods. But it is music, whether jolly or melancholy. I feel music connects you very easily. It is the best means to build bridges. It is fun to listen to music together. Another important thing that humans do…they love music.

Well a famous saying says – “ Love is blind” What does this mean? People who are in love keep optometrists in business?


No. When you love someone you can't see them. That's what it means. They exist but you physically lose the ability to visually perceive their presence. It's kind of unnerving at first but you get used to it over time. When we meet at first  we can see the person clearly but slowly they begin to fade the more we get to know them. And when we love them limitlessly the person becomes completely invisible. Be it flaws or goodness, it hardly matters, the person is accepted as a complete package. One change in any of the specifications, will change the model all together. We no longer miss them they become an integral part of us. This is what it means – Love is Blind.

Next question - WHY love makes us blind? Because we care so much about the other person that we spend all our time and energy focusing on making ourselves better, more worthy, for the person that we don't have time (or the inclination) to see their flaws. This is required from both the persons with equal force.